ok i shall post the first theme topic or open discussion topic .
An Article on girls/RL
as title shown and sound , its about girls . wahaha , personally i had been single for 4 years , not because i deliberately want to , but well , maybe too busy with works and all . For girls , they are emotional creature , however whats good about them , is they are beautiful being . caring individuals. I cant say i seen every female , but i have seen a handful of them , some are wth , where others give a great memories .
To me , i just don't know . i just love pamper and care my girlfriend , maybe that makes me feel like a man =x . haha
and life is not plan by god , god give u a breath , and its u to carry on breathing . its an open discussion topic , so flood my tag box . with points and i shall post it here and share with everyone .
as a guy , i must say theres good one and bad one , so open your eye big big ok ^^ haha ,
last night had a long conversation with sum , and she mentioned love is painful . well i believe yes and no , i do agree that love is painful , but remember the the good days we* had , good memories , and thats a great way to move on . Every relationship we had is experience of life , learn it and embrace it.
what can i say i really enjoyed the whole process , ups and downs . But now its time to stable down , and stop fooling around haha .
( new update )
Special request from jun. add on to the article on girls ,
well i can say this is one of the sub chapter of the article itself , when talking about girls ,we cant leave this out and that is how to woo a girl ?
hmm , tricky question ,
first of all you must straight things out , flirting and wooing is completely different , although technique use is very similar . lets admit guys , who don't flirt , but when it gets to serious flirting , some heart could get hurt , so please don't flirt lolz . ok as i was talking about wooing , when a guy meets a girl and the moment the eye lied upon each other , who knows maybe shes the one . what to do ?
well im not an expert in this area . but i would like to give some comments and points for the new comer on this ^^
* first and foremost : theres many ways to get close to a girl , and please at this very moment please don't do stun just to let the girl know your presents , and only thing u get will be the sting of eyes that came to u after your stun . *just strike a conversation with the girl , try to find some common topic. like both love nature ? blah blah blah , and at the same time , keep changing topic , don't get the girl tired of your so called interesting topic . it maybe interesting to u , but to others is like (wth please move on !).
* most guys may find this very familiar , just stick to her no matter what , si chan lan da , well i must stress this , this only works on small cases .
*i forgot the mention one very important point . treat her truthfully, that way she won't feel cheated in anyway and in fact you can actually be proud of it , as when u no need to be who u need to be , but who u really are . be proud of who u are =) , that way even if the girl u trying to woo , rejected u , don't be sad , cause u tried . and either theres really cant squeeze some fate to be together , or u and her are really just friends .
* and above the comment is subjected to the point of guys only . so if any girl out there wanna address something tag me or Msn me personally =)
ok thats the end of the wooing girl part , thats not all of it but i just haven compile those together thats all XD
ok speaking of which , theres something i wanna address , and that is although im not as experience as compared to my friends or buddy , but its how u feel , thats really important , being in a relationship is not because : oh my friend got bf/gf i need to get one too, its really a mis believe to others . please for your own sake , don't hurt others by just getting into the trench .
of a relationship is to remember the time we* had and happy memories we had , but not remembering how he/her ditched me , break promises , etc . enjoy every single moment of the process of the relationship from wooing , in a relationship and end of the relationship, its the feel thats important .
there may be ups and downs , but always remember , he is once there for me , held me close and help me out . the dates we had . this are the experience that help us move on , our life energy .
be truthful and stay happy is very important .
( still thinking of what to add =x)
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